The Gen X/Z Exchange
You might be wondering why you aren’t happier, where your career is going, or feeling adrift without a clear sense of direction. You’re asking, “How do I figure out what I’m even supposed to be doing?”
If you feel that familiar knot of confusion, dissatisfaction, or just plain stuckness, you've just found your kindred spirits.
This is The Gen X/Z Exchange. Where a Gen X dad and his Gen Z daughter bridge the generational divide to tackle modern life’s biggest headaches.
These aren't just your problems, they're the unspoken struggles of an entire generation - or two!
You're not alone in battling the quiet anxieties of a life that feels off-kilter. Happiness can be hard to find. Perhaps concerns about your mental and physical wellbeing are always bubbling away. Your most important relationships might feel strained, or the relentless demands of your career and finances are leaving you exhausted. These are the universal whispers that, surprisingly, span generations. We can help you untangle all this.
Chris has navigated layoffs, career pivots and found happiness after the infamous midlife slump, while Lily is figuring out her career after changing her degree path and reflecting on her early choices in the world of work. Our different generational viewpoints bring new ideas to tackling the big issues we’re both grappling with.
We chat about all this with honesty, realism and the openness a father-daughter relationship brings.
Our candid conversations will help you realise that you’re not alone in feeling this way too. You’ll gain fresh perspectives, practical insights, and the comforting realisation that many of your worries are universal – and solvable.
We’ll get to the heart of your frustrations, offering solutions we figure out together that you won't find anywhere else.
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The Gen X/Z Exchange
Overcoming procrastination at work or study - how to actually get started with Wilson Obeneme
“Why can’t I just get on with the things I keep putting off?” If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.
Gen X dad and Gen Z daughter Chris and Lily team up with productivity coach Wilson Obeneme to break down why we procrastinate, how it derails our focus, and what we can do to take action sooner.
Wilson shares surprising stats about procrastination, explores its root causes, and reveals the top three blockers that stop us tackling the tasks that matter most. We also dig into the hidden costs of delaying and how to avoid them.
You’ll learn:
- Two practical approaches to kick-start tasks you’ve been avoiding
- How perfectionism and “time-blindness” (ignoring deadlines) trap us - and how to beat them
- Three actionable steps to overcome procrastination using accountability
- The single morning micro-habit that can transform your productivity
Whether you’re struggling with study deadlines or drowning in a never-ending to-do list at work, listen in and you’ll discover simple tools to beat procrastination.
Even if the habit feels deeply ingrained, you can shift from “I’ll do it later” to “I'm done now.”
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1.12 Chris & Lily’s procrastination tendencies
2.20 Introduction to Wilson
3.25 Wilson’s early experience of becoming hyper-productive
5.58 Is procrastination something that happens, a habit or part of your identity?
7.40 Stats on procrastination
11.04 Causes of procrastination and different types
12.05 Three key reasons that stop people doing what they want
15.18 How to get started with tasks you’re putting off
19.40 How to overcome procrastination due to perfectionism and time blindness
22.55 The 8-8-8 rule and the work-rest cycle
25.05 Three additional steps to overcome procrastination using accountability
28.50 The hidden costs of procrastination
30.18 Micro-habits to beat procrastination
33.48 How to connect with Wilson
35.30 Our takeaways
Connect with Wilson Obeneme:
Take the 3-minute productivity quiz:
https://quiz.thegrowthplug.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/wilsonobeneme/
https://www.instagram.com/thegrowthplug_/
https://www.youtube.com/@thegrowthplug_podcast
Send us a voice message on Speakpipe!
https://www.speakpipe.com/thegenxzexchange
Connect with us:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/chrisperkins172/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/lily-perkins-8446a82bb/